Tuesday, January 20, 2009

We have come a long way mamabear!

 


We met upon
the internet,
My heart you did
not have yet.

I sit and wait each day,
for the song my
heart will soon play.

Of laughter, love and tears,
You have washed away
all my fears.

To be my friend
and see so deep,
I now know why
I don't get
much sleep.

I have waited
through all these
years,
To find something
to hold so dear.

And now I know
I'll never be
Blue,
For I have found
a true friend
in you.

happiness

 
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---------------------------- Original Message ----------------------------
Subject: For a Reason

I am sending this to you to see how many actually read their e-mail.
>>Your response will be interesting. Pay attention to what you read. After
you have finished reading it, you will know the reason it was  sent to
you.
>>Here goes:
>>
>>People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When
you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need  you
have expressed.
>>They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with
guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
>>spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
>>They are there for the reason you need them to be.
>>Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end.
>>Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
>>Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
>>What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
>>fulfilled, their work is done.
>>The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
>>
>
>>Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.
>>They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
>>They may teach you something you have never done.
>>They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
>>Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
>
>>LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
>>Your job is to accept the lesson,
>>love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.
>>It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
>>
>>
>>
>>Thank you for being a part of my life,
>>whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
>>

happy

i am happy as hell god is good to me so i will continue to be happy with being alone i need time to think and dont need any drama while doing it

check this out




1. MR. THUG LIFE

Advantages

a. Real good at making love
b. Fun and exciting
c. Makes you laugh
d. Has your back, will fight and protect you

Disadvantages

a. Usually drinks and smokes too much
b. Always got drama
c. Stays a thug forever
d. In and out of jail

2. MR. NAW, I DON`T HAVE A GIRL

Advantages

a. Will take you out in the beginning
b. Will introduce you to all his friends
c. Compliments you all the time

Disadvantages
a. Has a girlfriend who he`s been with since the 2nd grade
b. Will not get rid of her
c. He tells you about her after you`ve fallen in love with his @ss


3. MR. BIG BALLA

Advantages

a. Will give you money with no questions asked
b. Has a lot of style to him
c. Will show you some of the nice things in life

Disadvantages

a. Never returns your pages
b. Feels he can come to your house at any given time without calling first
c. Loves to be around his boys more than you.

4. MR. I`M IN THE INDUSTRY

Advantages

a. Can get you and your friends on the guest list at all the jumpin' parties
b. Can have a decent stimulating conversation
c. Tends to dress nice

Disadvantages

a. You don`t know if he`s gay, straight or bi
b. Seems flighty when you speak of a solid commitment
c. You still have to wait in line to get in all the jumpin' parties and then there`s drama at the door
d. All he has is a bunch of pictures with celebrities but he doesn`t know any of them personally

5. MR. INTELLECTUAL

Advantages

a. Book smart
b. Cares about how you feel
c. Has a very good job

Disadvantages

a. Boring as hell
b. Doesn`t know what the hell he`s doing in bed
c. He is not street smart
d. Always asking you when can he see you again

6. MR. GHETTO

Advantages

a. THE BOMB IN BED!!!!!
b. Makes you laugh
c. Got mad style and flava
d. Has a temper, but generally a charming sweet guy
e. Says he want a real relationship

Disadvantages

a. He got 3 or more baby mamas
b. Wants to lay up in your crib, use the phone, and eat up all the food
c. Is in denial when you tell him about himself
d. Comes home at 3:00 am and says he was out with his boys

7. MR. I`M A RIGHTEOUS BLACK MAN

Advantages

a. Will teach you about black history
b. Revolutionary
c. Inspiring & gives to you spiritually & emotionally
d. Wants a wife and family

Disadvantages

a. Breaks up with you for a white girl
b. Mo money- doesn't have a job
c. Doesn't own a nice suit, always wearing camouflage and oils
d. In the end, you find out he is just a trifling, con @ss muthaf#$%<BR>

8. MR. TOO DAMN GOOD

Advantages

a. Will introduce you to his mother
b. Has a job and will take you out
c. Will give you money for your bills if you need it
d. Sometimes he goes to church on Sunday

Disadvantages

a. Sometimes he goes to church on Sunday
b. Secretly wants to be Mr. Thug Life
c. Wears fake Movado & Rolex watches when he goes to the club
d. Ignores you when the game is on because he takes sports too serious
e. He didn't make it professionally
f. You find out after you break up with him that he was cheating on you

9. MR. PLAYA

Advantages

a. Will tell you the truth - that you`re not the only one
b. Sometimes he`s fairly decent in bed
c. He tells you that you`ve changed him and he`s ready to settle down
d. Has his own apartment and car (invites you to move in with him)

Disadvantages

a. He doesn't acknowledge you in public, especially if there`s women around
b. Generally he is a punk (won't stand up for anything)
c. He expects you to believe all his lies just because he told you the truth about other women
d. After you catch his lyin` @ss, he tells you that he told you that he was a playa in the beginning anyway

10. MR. I HAVE A JOB

Advantages

a. Of course.... he has a job
b. Doesn't have too many bad habits
c. Will take care of you when you`re sick
d. Tells you that he is in love with you

Disadvantages

a. You stay in the relationship 2 years or more and then find out he`s a shiftless, lazy son-of-a-b!tch who wants you to do all the wifely duties but won't give you a ring
b. He ends up telling you that he loves you, but is not 'in love' with you
c. After he leaves you he gets married a month later

11. MR. BEST FRIEND

Advantages

a. He`s your best friend, you tell each other everything; you get along very, very well
b. He gives you advice when you and your man are having problems
c. The ultimate gentleman
d. Sweet and caring with a good sense of humor

Disadvantages

a. You end up hooking up with him only to find he ain't about sh!t either
b. Now, you gotta find a new best friend because you can't stand his @ss no more

12. MR. RIGHT

Advantages

a. He loves God and takes his relationship with God seriously

b. He is intellectual, brilliant, and capable of taking you there mentally and emotionally

c. He will love you even when you are not lovable

d. He has a career and not a job!

e. He acknowledges his faults and strives to be a better man

f. He understands a relationship is built on a 200% quota - 100% him and 100% you

g. He doesn't have a bunch of kids and babies mommas - he`s smarter than that

h. He is a true best friend and everything you ever wanted in a man

i. He was cute when you met him. But, after spending sometime you see he`s fine as hell!

j. He can dress - knows the difference between formal, semi-formal, professional, business casual, casual, and since we are just chilling
let me throw on some sweats and a fitted hat

k. He loves his mother and respects women

Disadvantages

a. You`ve never met him and if you did he already has a girl/wife, and If you have met him your either the girl or wife.
Lucky you!

*Send this to all the women you know and all the men